Relationship Tips For Female College Students – How To Get Your College Sweetheart To Propose

Relationship Tips For Female College Students – How To Get Your College Sweetheart To Propose
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    If you ask some people who are in happy and successful marriages, they’ll tell you that they met and started dating their spouses in college.

    So, it is okay to date while in college; don’t feel guilty about it.

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If you ask some people who are in happy and successful marriages, they’ll tell you that they met and started dating their spouses in college. So, it is okay to date while in college; don’t feel guilty about it.

But, what if you’ve been dating a certain guy all your college life, but he doesn’t seem interested enough in making you his future wife? It’s understandable that most guys want to get a job first after graduation before thinking about settling down.

However, this shouldn’t stop him from proposing to you even If he is still jobless. If you’re sure you want to spend the rest of your life with him, then here is how to get the man you love to propose without putting pressure on him:

Help Him Counter His Fears on Marriage

Some men are afraid of marriage because they think that it will limit their freedom and make them emotionally vulnerable to the whims of one woman. That is why most of them prefer to date instead. In dating, they can get all the benefits of a marriage without any commitments and responsibilities.

So, how do make your guy see marriage differently? Make him feel relaxed, comfortable, loved and secure whenever the two of you are together. Instead of asking him endless questions about the future of your relationship; show him in many different ways that you’re the right woman for him; that he can’t live without you.

If you’re friends with a happy, newlywed couple, try setting up a casual date with them so that your guy can see that marriage isn’t all that bad the way he may have imagined. Men want wives who they perceive as visually attractive, happy, secure, confident and calm; try and be that woman. This is a sure way on how to get your guy to propose.

Exercise Patience, but Establish Realistic, Clear Boundaries

Some men find it okay to date women they like so much, but don’t consider wife material as they look for The One. There are others who will love you genuinely, but unless they feel fully prepared for the commitments that come with marriage, they won’t propose.

It’s important therefore, that you take time and evaluate the kind of relationship you’re in. Has he talked to you about the future of the relationship? Or has he told you openly that he isn’t interested in marriage?

If you’ve been dating for over five years, and you’re tired of waiting for that special moment, you need to be courageous enough to discuss about it with him. As long as a man’s needs are met in a relationship, he’ll see no need to marry, so it’s vital that you bring up the issue, and hear what he has to say.

Don’t Give Your Everything to Anyone Except Your Husband

Another useful tip on how to get your guy to propose is by leaving him to hunger for more of you. It’s unfortunate that some women don’t use that power of longing to their advantage; they hurriedly move in and have children with men they aren’t married to.

By moving in with the guy you love, you’re providing him with all the benefits of a marriage without any obligations or responsibilities. Only your husband should have that privilege of waking up next to you, so don’t move in with him if you want him to propose.

Put these simple tips into good use to make your college sweetheart propose. If you found what you’ve just read useful, please share it with your friends on different social media platforms.

Sources

http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/advice/a1893/will-he-ever-marry/

https://www.theknot.com/content/7-ways-to-get-him-to-propose

http://visihow.com/Get_a_Guy_to_Propose_Naturally_Without_Being_Obvious

10 Tips On How To Get A Guy To Propose

http://www.eharmony.com/dating-advice/relationships/how-my-boyfriend-went-from-unsure-to-proposing-in-two-weeks/

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